DEAR DEIDRE: THE team I’m in charge of at work ignore what I say and inevitably things go wrong.
I end up working unpaid overtime to get the job done.
I’ve struggled so hard to get where I am, but it’s not going very well.
My parents were alcoholics and I left home as soon as I could.
I’m 29 and life hasn’t been easy, but I work hard and was made supervisor in a warehouse.
I talked to HR, but they told me to manage my team better.
My review is coming up and I’m scared I’ll get sacked. I’ve no one to talk to.
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DEIDRE SAYS:I feel for you. An upbringing like yours can leave you lacking confidence – but don’t wait for your review.
Record these incidents and see HR again with specifics of what is going wrong.
Ask for more training and backing from management.
Contact Citizens Advice (citizensadvice.org.uk) too.
Find interests outside work that will help you to develop confidence.
Read my Raising Self-esteem and Widening Your Social Scene support packs.
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