I found out that my girlfriend was on Plenty of Fish while we were on a break

DEAR DEIDRE: DURING a temporary break-up my alcoholic girlfriend joined a dating site.

She’s 46 and I’m a man of 50. Things were OK for a while after she moved in with me.


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But when lockdown happened, her drinking increased to the point I would often have to help her to bed.

I couldn’t take any more so she went back to her mother’s and started going to Alcoholics Anonymous meetings and is now sober.

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She moved back in recently but I was fixing something on her laptop, clearing her history, and this dating site was on there.

I’m devastated.

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DEIDRE SAYS: Tell her what you saw – you weren’t snooping but found the website.

She may be able to reassure you this was something she checked out when you weren’t together.

She’s done well to give up alcohol and it would be a shame to spoil things now.

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