Lisa Appleton is helping Daily Star Online readers with matters of the bedroom by sharing her pearls of wisdom once more.
Last time, the Big Brother beauty was helping a woman who had been having sex dreams about her boyfriend's dad after accidentally walking on him in the shower.
She was contemplating ending things with her man over it as the feeling was "freaking [her] out" so much.
Lisa told her the feeling would pass and she shouldn't end her happy and loving relationship with her boyfriend over a fleeting crush.
This week, Lisa is helping a woman who is convinced her fella is up to no good with their cleaner.
'I think my boyfriend may be having sex with our cleaner'
Dear Lisa,
I have joined my boyfriend in working from home in recent months, with my office closed for the foreseeable future due to the coronavirus pandemic.
He has always worked at home due to the nature of his job.
It’s been really nice actually, as despite being with each other for over three years and living together, we don’t normally get that much time to spend with each other as my job is so full-on.
But I’ve started to notice something a little off.
We’ve had the same cleaner since the start of the year and she’s great – really friendly and has great attention to detail when it comes to cleaning around the house.
But since I’ve been working from home, I’ve noticed she seems to be paying more attention to my boyfriend than she does cleaning that hard-to-reach bit behind the taps.
On a couple of occasions I’ve caught them in the hallway talking in hushed tones to each other and then quickly separating when they see me.
My boyfriend has also started wearing aftershave every day, which he hasn’t before and I think it’s because she happened to comment that he smelt ‘really nice’ the other week.
I also noticed a text from her the other day on his phone, and while she didn’t say anything incriminating, her tone was certainly far from professional.
What’s more, I’ve been debating a change with my hair and my boyfriend suggested I 'go blonde' like the cleaner the other week.
He also has a massive sexual appetite and we used to have sex all the time, but he just doesn’t seem interested in having sex with me anymore, so, it's making me think is he getting it from someone else? Maybe her?
I want to bring it up with him, but I’m scared I've got the wrong end of the stick and he’ll think I’m being psycho.
What should I do?
Thanks,
Anonymous
Lisa says:
I think you really need to get your Marigolds on love and get deep delving into what's really going on between the cleaner and your boyfriend.
Because they are way too familiar – way too familiar.
They’re whispering in the hallway, she’s not really doing the cleaning properly, she’s sending him texts that aren’t incriminating, but they aren’t professional or acceptable.
These two are close. It’s nor rocket science. We all have a sixth sense, we all have gut feelings in our makeup and we can’t escape it.
If you suspect the woman is making a move on your man or is having an affair with your man, then the chances are, that feeling is right.
First of all, him saying ‘go blonde like the cleaner,’ men can be a little bit, you know, they can wind you up a bit to see how you react and you’ve not had that much sex recently either.
I think you really need to look at your relationship and you need to decide whether you want to continue it.
And you both need to talk about it.
You need to start having more sex again and paying each other more attention and get to the bottom of it.
Because certainly don’t be made a t*t of in your home.
If he is really not interested in you and nothing changes, you hire a window cleaner and have some fun with him!
I hope you’re alright anyway.
I wish you all the best.
Lisa Appleton is back next week to share more tips and tricks with Daily Star Online readers
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