I've fallen head over heels for a girl, but she just wants a regular hook up

DEAR DEIDRE: THE girl I’ve fallen head over heels for only wants casual sex.

I’m 18 and have been seeing this girl, who’s 19, for two months.

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I’m smitten and want to get serious but she told me she isn’t into commitment.

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The other day I almost blurted out that I loved her during sex, and stopped myself.

What can I do? I don’t want to get my heart broken.

DEIDRE SAYS: People fall in love at different rates. It’s still early days for you both.

Perhaps you just need to be patient and see how things progress. She might be scared and holding back.

But if nothing has changed in a month or two, you might have to accept things won’t work out as you hope, and look for someone new.

My support pack Learning About Relationships should help.

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