I've been on 50 first dates in two years but never landed a second

DEAR DEIDRE: IN the past two years I’ve dated probably 50 women but not one has wanted to see me again.

I’m 6ft 8in and very thin. My dates look dissapointed when we meet.


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I’m a big-hearted guy who just wants to find love but nobody wants me.

I’m not picky. I use decent dating sites and have met ladies of all shapes and sizes.

They say women are less shallow but I don’t agree. Not one even got to know me before deciding it be a no-go.

I’m now 35 and in despair that I’ll be lonely for ever.

DEIDRE SAYS: Dating sites put an emphasis on looks and making a good impression on first meeting. Finding somebody through a shared interest is usually a more promising place to start.

You can begin with chat about that mutual interest, rather than about yourself, so the conversation flows more easily and warmth can then develop.

For now, much is online, but you can still start to establish links. My e-leaflet Widening Your Social Scene will help you to find somebody who appreciates the man inside.

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